Tuesday, 11 October 2011

The choice between giving my all and giving up!!

Have you ever thought of quitting something - school, a job, a relationship, a society? I am sure all of us have thought of quitting something or the other at some point of our lives.. Sometimes it might be for a simple reason of being bored and the quest of finding something better, however, more often than not - it is from the fear of failing. People prefer to quit rather than fail.

Having had a few downs in one day, I was going to quit my goal yesterday, something for which I have been working since early this year and very rigorously since past couple of months. I was sure of my success until yesterday when I had a few set backs and I thought - "This isn't working, I don't think I have the energy anymore" Result - I had fever this morning and no will to go to work.

I just spent the day to choose between giving my everything in the next 20 days for what I have been working for, or just give it up. In the end, I chose the former. I will be disappointed if I fail but I will not be able to face myself if I give up. So here I am, all ready to be back in the game after a short break!!

2 comments:

Dandelion said...

This is a very interesting thought. It never occurred to me that the reason I quit something might be because of a fear of failure, but I think you are right about that. This really makes me think back to things I have quit to try to figure out why.

shubhangi said...

Hi Dandelion,

Thank you for the encouragement!! I just write about things I learn from day to day life.. I am glad that you liked what I wrote..

Cheers,
Shubhangi